I was six months free of an abusive relationship when I got the text. It was from Beau, a coworker. I'd spent the entire morning trying to figure out what I was going to eat for lunch, not realizing my naked photos had already been sent to half a dozen people. An overwhelming sense of shame overtook me as I told him to prove it. He replied with a photo: It was definitely me, and I was definitely naked. Below it, the original sender had written: "Forward these to everyone you know.
The Unwritten Rules When It Comes to Your Ex's Nudes - VICE
Where do they go? And should you care if your ex still has your nudes? The answers are mixed. For some, like Cindy Gallop—founder of Make Love Not Porn, a NSFW video site dedicated to correcting porn-based myths about sex —keeping nudes from past lovers is a way to reminisce about good times from her past. In my case, I consider and I treat those nudes as just a really nice and entirely private personal reflection. I treat those nudes as just a really nice and entirely private personal reflection.