What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (Advice for Women)
Advice for Dating in Your 40s | 40 & Single | eHarmony Advice
I thought that since I was an attractive, fit, well-educated, financially and emotionally secure guy that I would have no problem finding a woman in her mid 30s to settle down with and start a family. I have tried a combination of online dating, speed dating, professional singles events, volunteering, happy hours etc. I thought that online dating would be great since you are essentially pre-screening people for dates. I am told that women want to settle down and have kids, etc. At singles events, women come in groups and are reluctant to talk to men. In online situations, women say they want desperately to meet a nice guy like me, but never answer my response to their profile. I am trying to remain positive, but two things are really bothering me.
Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s?
I love men. It really is ALL about you, ladies! The vast majority of these guys are not the self-centered, testosterone-led, immature boys you met and maybe married in your 20s or 30s. They have matured.
Once upon a time, when the relationship God's were smiling at me, I dated a 40 year old man. The man was all suave, athletic and chivalrous. He wore expensive ankle length boots that no man in my village or within my circles could afford. He was a smoker but stuck to embassy cigarettes. He was allergic to cheap cigars.