Jennifer B. Rhodes Sep 12, Dating , Seduction 0 comments. In fact, it can be quite easy to deduce whether someone is really playing the manipulative game of seduction or is simply scared of being in a new relationship. This information is invaluable and should guide your personal dating strategy. Common conventional dating advice highlights this strategy as emotionally immature. It certainly may be.
Here's What's Really Happening When The Guy You've Just Started Dating Is Acting Hot & Cold
Someone wants to be chased to feel validated. Both the hot and the cold phase are dysfunctional. The Hot phase obviously feels better then the cold phase. He showers you with text, phone calls, compliments, interesting dates, invites to events, etc. Not sure what grown woman or man has time for that! By allowing Mister or Misses inconsistent in your space, you create a tolerance for inconsistent and toxic energy that lowers your vibration. Most women email me and they decide to play the game with the guy by allowing themselves to be hot and cold to give him a taste of his own medicine.
The Hot and Cold Guy: Why Is He Hot and Cold (And What to Do About It)
He lays it on thick and absolutely ravishes you with attention and warmth — only to switch things up seemingly without any sort of provocation and freeze you out. What happened? Why did he pull away?
Is your partner playing hot and cold? One minute you're high on the warmth of their attention, the next minute you're frozen out and left wondering what happened. You begin to question your actions. Did you say the wrong thing? Did you make the wrong move?