In my 20s, I was oddly committed to seeking out my orgasms from other people a notoriously unreliable source. I understand having to work through shame and body issues before becoming completely comfortable with self-pleasure, but I really recommend doing whatever unblocking you need to start to pushing your own buttons ASAP. But you have to promise to control your inner Cersei; a person can get drunk off this much power. The first tip comes from sex researcher and neuroscientist Debra W.
Reductress » How to Give Yourself an Orgasm Simply by Touching Your Clit a Whole Bunch
For those of you who don't have a daily Google alert for the word "orgasm," you might have missed the fact that today is National Orgasm Day. It's probably not coincidental that it's also Hump Day, am I right? But luckily for you guys, I do have that Google alert that's my job, folks! There's another universally simple trick for self-pleasure: This one's on your bed for those who prefer dry land. Timing is everything!
10 of Our Best Orgasm Tips in Honor of National Orgasm Day
Located above the opening of the urethra, your clitoris is your most sensitive erogenous zone and the primary source of vaginal sexual pleasure. Knowledge is your best friend when it comes to knowing how to move your clit around a whole bunch. The anatomy of the vagina is complicated, but unbeknownst to many, the orgasm is actually extremely achievable simply by doing that, but a lot.
Masturbation is no longer something we need feel ashamed of. Nowadays, many people openly admit to giving themselves a bit of self-love now and again, and why not? Learning how to give yourself an orgasm is all about practice.